Robert's Rules of Order
- thisisshawnamarie

- Jul 22
- 2 min read
ROBERT’S RULES FOR TINY GROUPS (The “We’re Only 4–5 People, Let’s Not Fight” Edition)
Citizens’ Council – Western State Hospital
Why we use this stuff: So meetings don’t turn into a chaotic group chat. Think of it as traffic lights for talking — keeps everything fair and moving.
1. How to Start Something (The Motion)
Raise your hand or say: “I make a motion to…”
Example: “I make a motion to have pizza parties every Friday!”
Pro Tip: Keep it short. No one wants a novel.
2. The “Second” (You Need Backup)
Someone else must say: “I second that!”
No second = idea dies immediately (sorry, pizza guy).
Think of it as: “I also think that’s not completely crazy.”
3. Discussion Time (The Fun Part)
Chair says: “Is there any discussion?”
Take turns. Be respectful. No interrupting.
Funny but true rule: You can only talk after you’re recognized by the Chair.
Joke Rule: If you start rambling, the Chair can yell “Point of Order!” (which is fancy for “Dude, wrap it up.”)
4. Time to Vote!
Chair asks: “All in favor say ‘Aye’… All opposed say ‘Nay’.”
Most common: Majority wins (3 out of 5 beats 2).
You can also do a quick hand vote if it’s close.
Pro Move: If it’s obvious everyone agrees, just say “Without objection, we’ll do it.” Saves time!
5. Quick Survival Phrases
What to Say | What it Means | When to Use |
“Point of Order” | “That’s against the rules!” | Someone’s breaking rules |
“Call the Question” | “Let’s stop talking and just vote!” | Discussion dragging on forever |
“I yield my time” | “I’m done talking” | You’ve made your point |
“Motion to Adjourn” | “Can we please go home now?” | Everyone’s tired |
Golden Rules for Our Small Group
Only one person talks at a time.
Everyone gets a chance to speak.
The Chair is the referee (not the boss).
Keep it kind — we’re all on the same team.
If it’s tiny and obvious, you can relax the rules a bit.
Bottom of Page Reminder (Big Bold Text):
“Be respectful. Have fun. Get stuff done.” — Your Friendly 4–5 Person Council




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