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Robert's Rules of Order

ROBERT’S RULES FOR TINY GROUPS (The “We’re Only 4–5 People, Let’s Not Fight” Edition)

Citizens’ Council – Western State Hospital


Why we use this stuff: So meetings don’t turn into a chaotic group chat. Think of it as traffic lights for talking — keeps everything fair and moving.


1. How to Start Something (The Motion)

  • Raise your hand or say: “I make a motion to…”

  • Example: “I make a motion to have pizza parties every Friday!”

Pro Tip: Keep it short. No one wants a novel.


2. The “Second” (You Need Backup)

  • Someone else must say: “I second that!”

  • No second = idea dies immediately (sorry, pizza guy).

Think of it as: “I also think that’s not completely crazy.”


3. Discussion Time (The Fun Part)

  • Chair says: “Is there any discussion?”

  • Take turns. Be respectful. No interrupting.

  • Funny but true rule: You can only talk after you’re recognized by the Chair.

Joke Rule: If you start rambling, the Chair can yell “Point of Order!” (which is fancy for “Dude, wrap it up.”)


4. Time to Vote!

  • Chair asks: “All in favor say ‘Aye’… All opposed say ‘Nay’.”

  • Most common: Majority wins (3 out of 5 beats 2).

  • You can also do a quick hand vote if it’s close.

Pro Move: If it’s obvious everyone agrees, just say “Without objection, we’ll do it.” Saves time!


5. Quick Survival Phrases

What to Say

What it Means

When to Use

“Point of Order”

“That’s against the rules!”

Someone’s breaking rules

“Call the Question”

“Let’s stop talking and just vote!”

Discussion dragging on forever

“I yield my time”

“I’m done talking”

You’ve made your point

“Motion to Adjourn”

“Can we please go home now?”

Everyone’s tired

Golden Rules for Our Small Group

  • Only one person talks at a time.

  • Everyone gets a chance to speak.

  • The Chair is the referee (not the boss).

  • Keep it kind — we’re all on the same team.

  • If it’s tiny and obvious, you can relax the rules a bit.


Bottom of Page Reminder (Big Bold Text):

“Be respectful. Have fun. Get stuff done.” — Your Friendly 4–5 Person Council

 
 
 

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